Talking during sex is fun. Strangely enough, for me at least... even when it's done wrong. See, I like to laugh and during sex is as good a time to laugh as any. Unless I'm with a dude with no sense of humor at all, this has never caused a problem for me.
But what do you say? Also... I know a lot of shy types who are fine with grinding all over their partners and putting bits and pieces of their partner in their mouths, but ask them to dirty talk and they lose their minds completely. It's hilarious, really, especially after hearing about the pornstar level acts they just told me they'd committed. So you can DO it, but not talk about what you've been doing? Funny stuff.
I'm not much of a "sportscaster", meaning that I don't like describing what I am already doing. I like to advise as to what I plan to do to him later though. In as much graphic detail as I can muster. I also tend towards a little bit of covert approval-seeking, disguised as dirty talk... hmmm.. more of a dirty questionaire, if you will. This sort of dirty talk leads me to some inside info on his favorite things that I do to him. Helpful info, yes? Yes.
I also kind of get off on hearing something that can be deemed just a bit inappropriate or asking for something that is logistically impossible as a means of expressing just how much I like what is being done to me.
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